The triple A formula to improve the personality....

As I have not done any diploma and degree in the "Art of dealing with People" but after reading some books and listening to some good people, I got to know one thing which is "how to deal with people" but remember one thing always i.e "Exceptions are always there".

The three things which I have learned are as follows:

1st thing is "to accept the people as they are" It is necessary to accept the people as they are as I always say that you will not be able to change the people instead of that we can change ourselves according to the situations which we face, Let suppose, you are seeing there is a person who is superior to you and he is doing what you do not like but in his mind he likes a lot what he is doing, can you stop him as he is superior to you and can even fire you from your job, the answer is strictly "NO" you can not, but instead of that you can accept that person as he is, do not insist that anyone be perfect or change before you can like them.

Remember one thing always that "Those who accept people as they are, have the most influence in changing others, behavior for the better.

No one has the power to "change" another, but by accepting others as they are, you give them the power to change themselves.

The second thing is "to admire the good things either it is small or big". when you admire the good things and deeds done by the people so another person respects you and understands that he needs to carry on the same thing which he is doing right now because the person is hungry to listen even two good words in favor of what he did, it really helps you to deal with those people who do not even know you, because the time you praise and appreciate the good deeds, the person attracts to you and gets more motivated to continue the thing which he is doing and the same thing goes on you as well.

The last but not the least is "Appreciation" The  word appreciate means to raise in value, it is similar to the second point but here are some good points to deal with people like 

- Do not keep people waiting, if you do so, it really shows that you do not know the value of the person who is waiting for you, see everyone's time is important so it would be better if you do not let them wait and if there is a genuine reason so, acknowledge their presence and let them know that you will be with them as soon as possible and do appreciate their patience  at least say THANK YOU FOR WAITING as I am not the PM of this country because you have waited too long for me.

- Treat people as "special" either the person is rich, poor, younger, elder, or whosoever he is because the time you give the special treatment to the person, he will also do the same thing because you must have listened to one thing i.e "TIT for TAT".

- Do remember if you are going to purchase a single toffee of one rupee from the shop or the chocolate of 100 Rs, always treat the shopkeeper same so, it will help the shopkeeper to say good things about you and also you will feel special as the ONE thing successful people have in common is skill in using the words.

So hence prooved, the triple A's (Accept, Admire and Appreciate) can really help you to learn "how to deal with people" just joking, it is possible anyone has a better formula than this to deal with people as;

"parivartan sansar ka niyam hai"

After a very long time, I wrote something, I do not write many pages instead write less but should be understandable, I know I would have made the mistake if you find so, please do let me know.

Thank you very much for reading.