Through My Eyes....

When we see people around us so, we are very curious to know their stories because everyone who takes birth in this world comes with a unique story like when a person comes near you and asks for money so, we are supposed to think like that he has been forced to ask money from us because of his destiny and on the other hand when we see a person driving a car so, he is rich only because of his destiny. There is nothing more mysterious than destiny – of a person, of our species, of our planet or of the universe itself.  -  Brian Swimme Here a question arises that does destiny really play any role in the life of the particular person?  Or the people who are either driving the car or begging on the road have written their stories by themselves because we are grown up listening to thought by the 2nd richest person in the world “Bill Gates” which is “If you are born poor its not your mistake but if you die poor it's your mistake”. The assumption is based on ...

Here is the definition of listening- to pay attention to someone or something in order to hear what is being said, sung, played, etc. -- Source - Google-- There are two types of listeners exist in the world. The people who just listen to everything but do not understand that what is being said, how should they react and how to reply to that person, belongs from the first category. The people who listen to every person very carefully and effectively, who very well know that how they have to react after listening to anything and most important how should they reply, belongs from the second category. Here is the reason why should we try to belong to the second category; "To be able to listen to others in a sympathetic and understanding manner is perhaps the most effective mechanism in the world for getting along with the people and tying up their friendship for good." - Oliver Holmes I agree that most of the people know how to speak effectively and pol...

As I have not done any diploma and degree in the "Art of dealing with People" but after reading some books and listening to some good people, I got to know one thing which is "how to deal with people" but remember one thing always i.e "Exceptions are always there". The three things which I have learned are as follows: 1st thing is  "to accept the people as they are"  It is necessary to accept the people as they are as I always say that you will not be able to change the people instead of that we can change ourselves according to the situations which we face, Let suppose, you are seeing there is a person who is superior to you and he is doing what you do not like but in his mind he likes a lot what he is doing, can you stop him as he is superior to you and can even fire you from your job, the answer is strictly "NO" you can not, but instead of that you can accept that person as he is, do not insist that anyone be perfect or change ...